I don’t know exactly where to start and every time I speak about this all I want to do is cry because I don’t know where in life I went wrong. I am 33 years old single mom of a 16 year old boy. I live at home with my parents and siblings and I am basically responsible for everything at home. Everything is always left up to me like the bills, the problems, everyone’s kids and there problems. Even when I am at work I am being called all day to handle things that someone else could handle. Now it is starting to take effect on my personal life. I have a good guy that I want to be with but was told by my dad if I did decide to do this I should stay with him and not come back home. And for me not to expect to even be able to come back and get my belongings. I don’t know how fair this is to me. So of course I had to cancel my plans and when doing that I informed the guy that I am talking to about my problem and now he is Upset with me. I know I need a life and I need to be happy but I don’t want to lose my family neither but all they are doing is holding me back for having a life of my own. When I say I am going to do something they are mad but if I stay home everything alright and I’m am constantly arguing with them and literally crying everyday. I force myself to go to sleep early each night so that everyone leaves me alone and I can close my eyes and just think and cry. Some days I just feel like sending them a text saying please don’t pick me up after work because I have chosen to have my own life. Only thing is that I don’t even have money saved up to do so because I’m to busy covering all he bills in the house. I come to work everyday with a smile on my face and help numerous people but I can’t seem to gain control and help myself out. I just don’t see how anyone could find it fair to treat someone like this and constantly see them unhappy.
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